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Listing

Listing Part 1 Since I was very young, I’ve enjoyed making lists in my head, verbally, or on paper. For example, I had a list of all my stuffed animals. I could rattle off their names whenever I felt like it: Woodsy, Foresty, Teddy, Fishy, Plushpuppy, Ginger, Kitty (if there were more animals, I have since forgotten their names). I think that I might have already told you how in high school, I wrote a list of the books I owned.

My penchant for listing does seem at least somewhat acquisitive. My heaps of names, words, and books made me feel a little like Scrooge McDuck immersed in his pile of money (I read my share of comics, too). However, since my freshman year of college, I have also used my lists to organize my life. I would use a day planner to list what tasks I had to do and marked each one off when it was finished. That made me feel like I was accomplishing something, even if it just meant one more day until a visit home. Most importantly making lists has helped me remain engaged in my own life and the world around me. Below are some examples.

About six or seven years ago–before the pandemic–I signed up for the INaturalist app. This app (and the organization behind it) allow me to identify plants and animals and share photographs I take with amateur and professional scientists around my community and the world.

screenshot of my INaturalist list, March 15, 2025

I was so happy with INaturalist that I finally downloaded the Merlin Bird ID app from Cornell Lab of Ornithology. I used this app just two days ago to help me identify the bird calls of eight species I heard on my eleven minute walk home from the library: northern mockingbird, American crow, European starling, American robin, Carolina wren, northern cardinal, house sparrow, and blue jay. In less urban environments, I use Merlin to identify birds I can’t see in the trees and to verify guesses about the birds I do see. Below is my list from the afternoon of May 13, 2024, in North Bend State Park, West Virginia.

North Bend State Park, West Virginia, May 13, 2024

Following in the footsteps of my brother Dan, I have again started writing a list of the books I’ve read.  Dan’s list (I have a copy of his list tucked away somewhere) featured academic literature. Mine is my usual hodgepodge, but I like it.

book list circa 2024-2025

Through the last 14 years, I have used my day book to note trips to gardens, museums, forests, parks, visits with family and friends, road trips, and the like. Since the beginning of this year, I have also used my day book to list each day’s activities more granularly. My daily list has changed. Now, along with lunch or dinner with friends and family or going to the Smithsonian or working at Hillside Park, I also list going to the store or to the the recycling bin in the next block or to the downstairs gym or that I made muffins. I am focusing on daily tasks. One task listed is, “breathe.” Not, breathe in and out 24 hours a day; I mean meditative breathing to keep myself moderately calm(ish). Our country is in turmoil. I need to stay calm enough to empathize with others and to remain active, helpful, and hopeful. Today I sent ten postcards to Donald J. Trump expressing my views on social, political, and governmental issues. I also responded to a text from one of my senators. Some days I contact people in Congress, join in town hall meetings, sign petitions, or donate tiny bits of money to the ACLU. These things are also on my list. I haven’t gone to a march yet, but I think I will soon. So my lists have changed a bit, but they still help me keep engaged in my own life and in that of my country.

Listing Part 2 A ship can be said to be listing when it tilts to the port (left) side or the starboard (right) side. Our ship of state is listing dangerously to the right. I do not want it to founder on the jagged rocks of racism, sexism, homophobia, greed, ignorance, or cruelty. I will to do my part.

Note:Democracy” is on my long list of favorite Leonard Cohen songs. Please be well.

Roads

After failed attempts in three successive years, Tom and I recently completed one more road trip to the western United States. While not the year-long or months-long trips of years past, it was (you may say) satisfactory. We drove 6,184 miles through 15 states. For a good part of the trip west, we tried to travel on U.S. Route 50. On the way back home, once we got through Colorado, we mostly followed U.S. Route 30 east.

early morning, Iowa farm country

early morning, Iowa farm country

We heard birds everywhere we traveled: a Baltimore oriole cheeped in the tree above our campsite at North Bend State Park in West Virginia; dicksissels and Eastern meadowlarks sang in the TallGrass Prairie National Preserve in Kansas; and we saw, heard, and acknowledged the ravens at the North Rim of the Grand Canyon.  At the Gates of Lodore campground in Dinosaur National Monument, Tom and I camped next to a busy family of black-billed magpies, where, for hours at a time, the parents took turns quickly gathering food and returning to the nest to feed their clamoring babies. I had never seen before this intense behavior so near at hand. I feel lucky to have seen it  On our month-long trip we heard and saw warblers, vireos, woodpeckers, sparrows, nuthatches, tanagers, cardinals, owls, Canada geese, wrens, and many more species. Through the weeks and miles–in the woods, prairies, canyons, and mountains–I often would hear a particularly sweet clear song. It was always familiar, but I would check my Merlin app to be sure. It was always an American robin. I love them and thank them for their companionship on this trip and in my life.

On this trip Tom and I made an effort to see not just our favorite places, but also some places we have longed to see. We sought out gardens, arboretums, forests, preserves, parks, and monuments. Some places–like Browns Park in northeastern Colorado–I had been reading about for decades. Other places–like Purdue’s Gabis Arboretum in northwestern Indiana–we searched out as we traveled. Below are photos of some of the places we visited.

cream violet, North Bend State Park, West Virginia

Muscatatuck National Wildlife Refuge, Indiana

southeastern Colorado

Bandelier National Monument, New Mexico

roundleaf buffaloberry, Cape Royal, North Rim, Arizona

Gates of Lodore, Dinosaur National Monument, Colorado

Browns Park National Wildlife Refuge, Colorado

Poudre River Canyon, Colorado

Poudre River Canyon, Colorado

evening, Prairie Rose State Park, Iowa

bur oak, Gabis Arboretum, Indiana

Tom and I were going on a road trip, so we were also planning on finding some tasty road food along the way. In fact, before our departure, Tom had been studying The Great American Burger Book to find iconic burgers in the states we would travel through. As it turned out, we only tried two regional favorites from the book: a GOM Sandwich at Zaharakos Ice Cream Parlor and Museum in Columbus, Indiana and a bierock at Runza, a chain restaurant in North Platte, Nebraska. I found the GOM sandwich pretty good and the root beer float I drank with it delicious. The fast food bierock tasted like nondescript fast food, but the staff members were friendly. If I travel through Nebraska again, I would like to try a slow cooked version of a bierock.

We did come across a handful of good restaurant meals on the road, though. Pepperoni rolls are a thing in West Virginia and we had great ones–for lunch and dinner!–from Tomaro’s Bakery in Clarksburg. If you like good bread and flavorful artery-hardening Italian meat and if you are nearby, it’s worth a drive to the old Clarksburg downtown to try these rolls. It’s a long way from almost anywhere to the generic strip mall in Minooka Illinois, that houses the Dragon Inn. We ate the best dumplings we ever had and the other dishes we had (which escape me already) were also delicious. I wish I had taken more photos, but we were busy eating.

On this trip Tom and I stayed in hotels much more than we camped. Still, one of my favorite meals was our standard  camp meal of cheese sandwich, hummus, carrots, and chips.

The Great American Burger Book

pepperoni roll from Tomaro’s Bakery, Clarksburg, West Virginia

bierock, North Platte, Nebraska

dumplings, Dragon Inn, Minooka, Illinois

camp meal and game, Bandelier National Monument

The Other Road We Travel Yesterday was Tom and my 50th wedding anniversary.* As it does happen in this life, we started out young and now we are old.  When we were young at the North Rim and a few years later in Salt Lake City, we flew  with our friends like a flock of freewheeling birds above our uncertainties, our problems, our pains, and our setbacks.  This year, Tom and I needed to get back to the the rim and Salt Lake City (and the Front Range of Colorado) one more time (at least) to where we began together and to see others of our flock.

This was the primary impetus that got us on the road. We feel fine, or fine enough for a couple of old coots, but we don’t know how long that will last. I don’t know the exact words to describe the sweetness and comfort I felt–even in this uncertain, uncivilized, and fraught era–in seeing our friends again. Laura, Art, Howard, and Mark in Salt Lake; Sally in Colorado; and Richard when we were back home in Virginia. I remember with love all our friends from those days–the ones we recently saw and the ones we didn’t.  And, I just now recalled a line from Bob Dylan that gets me closer to what I mean to say: then and now, you give us shelter from the storm.

ravens over the Grand Canyon

ravens over the Grand Canyon

North Rim, 2018


* Because it was our actual anniversary and the Summer Solstice, I hoped to finish this article yesterday. My excuses for others:  It was hot and we went out to dinner. My excuse for myself: I was in an extended period of procrastination.