Our current road trip will end tomorrow as Tom and I head back to Charlottesville. Spring awaits with its cleaning, taxes, and, best of all, the garden.
What a strange (but not too long) a trip it’s been: squealing differential in Florida, airborne tent in Texas, hankering to be one with the earth everywhere, while still craving that internet political fix.
Today, I am taking a detour to New Orleans. Tom didn’t quite take me to the Mardi Gras (it’s on February 28 this year), but close enough for a woman who doesn’t smoke, mostly doesn’t drink, and who surely can’t dance (except maybe to Motown).
I love New Orleans. Maybe it started with my mom’s New Orleans pralines. Or, maybe it was Paul Simon’s, “Take Me to the Mardi Gras“:
Come on, take me to the Mardi Gras
Where the people sing and play
Where the dancing is elite
And there’s music in the street
Both night and day
Hurry, take me to the Mardi Gras
In the city of my dreams
You can legalize your lows
You can wear your summer clothes
In the New Orleans
And I will lay my burden down
Rest my head upon that shore
And when I wear that starry crown
I won’t be wanting anymore
Take your burdens to the Mardi Gras
Let the music wash your soul
You can mingle in the street
You can jingle to the beat
Of Jelly Roll
© 1973 Words and Music by Paul Simon
I loved the food. People were singing and playing. There was music in the street.
I let the music wash my soul and I mingled in the street. I worked on laying some of my burden down.
I remembered what I thought the first time I went–alone–to New Orleans about 14 years ago. As I wandered through the French Quarter, I thought: I know who I am throwing in my lot with. I am with the people who sing, dance, eat real food, and maybe smoke and drink and whatever, but just trying to get by with a little grace, style, and humor. I do not stand with those who think there is only one way and who denigrate those who choose a different path. That sounds like fascism to me. I can’t explain myself well on this topic, but, lucky for me, Robin and Linda Williams have some words that work for me in Going, Going Gone:
Our visit to NOLA was the inspiration for our Mardi Gras parties. I never made it to Mardi Gras but we were there for the Jazz Festival. Great time. There was a gazebo in the middle of a grassy area with a piano and who should walk up out of nowhere and start playing but Harry Connick Jr. No audience, just us. Awesome. Skip had been to 5 or 6 Mardi Gras in NOLA before I even met him. So it was engrained in his personality. He even put his X on Marie Laveau’s tomb. I could go on and on but …………
Tom and I thought of Skip and you when we were in NOLA. We only attended one of your Mardi Gras parties, but it was one of our favorite parties ever. Re Harry Connick, Jr., I love it when people play just for the love of music. Love to you.